My School Story – Are you listeningNow?
Mainstream schools cause harm to countless children every day from bullying, high pressured environments, stressed staff and the “one-size-fits-all” approach that is harmful to many – including neurodivergent young people or anyone who learns best kinaesthetically (hands on). We welcome stories from parents, carers and professionals. Adults are welcome to share their own stories of childhood.
We now have a page for children to share their experiences in their own words. This is called Child’s Voice.
PS – This is an excellent page to share with you MP.
Jenn, Somerset
- February 8, 2025
I left school feeling that I was broken and that I had no skills. Read More...
Harry, Devon
- February 11, 2025
School was overwhelming. Read More...
Young Person, Somerset
- February 11, 2025
School was scary. Read More...
Kate, Somerset
- February 11, 2025
I applied for an ehcp needs assessment that was refused and school said they couldn’t apply as there was insufficient evidence. Read More...
Mom to a Primary School Aged Child, West Midlands
- February 11, 2025
**Trigger Warning** This wasn't just anxiety, something serious was going on here. Read More...
Parent, Herts
- February 11, 2025
**Trigger Warning** We were told to take her to school in her pyjamas kicking and screaming. She wouldn't do it again they said. Read More...
80’s child
- February 11, 2025
I felt invisible, unworthy and stupid. Read More...
Parent, Leicestershire
- February 12, 2025
I witnessed bullying not only between children but between staff and children and between staff. Read More...
Gemma, Hampshire
- February 12, 2025
I was so scared of getting things wrong at school. I used to have tummy aches and feel sick and want to go home because I couldn't make friends and I was not keeping up. Read More...
Hen, UK
- February 12, 2025
I failed most of my GCSEs because I was too afraid to go to school and when I was at school I hid in the corner trying not to attract attention to myself. Read More...
Parent, West Dorset
- February 12, 2025
I had always believed that school would be the best place for my child to be educated and that they and the LA would support us to provide with an education but I was wrong. Read More...
Parent, UK
- February 12, 2025
I can not see another child go through the pain and mental torture that my elder 2 have endured in an unhappy situation at school. Read More...
6 Year Old, Somerset
- February 12, 2025
“I didn’t really like school this last year. They weren’t treating me in a way that would help me.” Read More...
Young Person, Surrey
- February 13, 2025
Mistake 1, nobody at this school responds to bullying. Reporting made things worse, parents urged school to act. Read More...
Parent, was in Colchester
- February 13, 2025
As parents we felt that pursuing anything for him was unsafe at that school as they were showing predatory and abusive behaviour. I couldn’t trust them with my son. Read More...
Child in the 1990s, Hampshire, UK
- February 18, 2025
**Trigger Warning** My traumatic time at school nearly killed me... Read More...
Child, Rugby, UK
- February 18, 2025
**Trigger Warning** He frequently had bruises, he said a child was constantly hitting him and no one helped. Read More...
County Durham, UK
- February 18, 2025
I was encouraged to drag him in from the car and the teachers would help. Read More...
Sophie, 18, Staffordshire, UK
- February 18, 2025
**Trigger Warning** My 100% attendance dropped to 38%, I was called defiant and confrontational. Read More...
J, South East, UK
- February 18, 2025
It was awful to see our son in so much distress, day in day out, he was so physically tense and not himself. Read More...
Vicki, Warwickshire, UK
- February 18, 2025
I definitely have trauma from school. Thinking about it makes me tearful even now Read More...
Parent story of 5yr old, Somerset, UK
- February 18, 2025
Starting school just after turning 4 my child faced daily bullying, their arm was stamped on so hard they had a shoe print bruise on their arm. Read More...
Parent, Cambridgeshire
- February 18, 2025
**Trigger Warning** The current school system is failing children, it is destroying them, and it is not safe to send them back to. Read More...
Parent, Devon, UK
- February 18, 2025
At school he really needed a 1-1 but there was no funding. Read More...
Young Person, Manchester, UK
- February 18, 2025
The Head and Deputy Head kept telling me to repeat what I'd said, but they were getting angry so I was too scared to talk. Read More...
Parent of 5: Part 1 – UK
- February 27, 2025
**Trigger Warning** We have deregistered from a primary school and a secondary school....both too worried about statistics than my child's health and happiness. Read More...
Parent of 5: Part 2 – UK
- February 27, 2025
**Trigger Warning** The last two years of primary school, after the pandemic, my happy child returned to school and was crushed. Read More...
Parent of 5: Part 3 – UK
- February 28, 2025
'No!! She can't be autistic! She's perfectly normal'. Read More...
Parent of 5: Part 4 – UK
- February 28, 2025
Preschool told us that they had selective hearing. We knew it was more. Read More...
Parent of 5: Part 5 – UK
- February 28, 2025
Reception was lovely, but year one started with red, sore lips and sleepless nights. 'We don't play much any more and the work is too hard'. Read More...